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Loving Kindness

May 20th, 2010  

Pema Chodron explains “maitri” which translates as loving kindness.

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Love and Compassion

May 15th, 2010  

Love and Compassion

When we are angry, we desire to do harm. We want to either harm ourself, a situation, or another person or persons. For all kinds of reasons, causing harm is a very bad idea so we need to find ways to stop doing this…

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Kindness Rules Over Anger Practice Day

May 10th, 2010  

As a way to create a strong environment for your anger management efforts, choose one day where you work hard to not lose your seat with anger. We all lead busy lives, and despite our aspirations to…

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Dan Gilbert asks, Why are we happy?

May 5th, 2010  

Dan Gilbert

Author of Stumbling on Happiness Dan Gilbert challenges the assumption that not getting what we want makes us unhappy.

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Is Your Anger Covering Over the Shame of Child Abuse?

April 28th, 2010  

Have you ever seen a kid in a grocery store lose it? He clenches his face, hitting his fists, and then starts crying and yelling. It’s embarrassing for his parents…

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Anger Makes You Ugly

April 24th, 2010  

Anger makes you ugly. It’s true!

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The Illusion of Ego II

April 16th, 2010  

It’s tempting to see ego mind as the big bad enemy. Because it gives us so much trouble there can be a tendency to vilify the illusion of ego, and then to direct our efforts towards…

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The Illusion of Ego I

April 14th, 2010  

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In Buddhist lingo, the struggle to maintain the illusion of solidity and comfort is known as ego, which is different than the western notion of a healthy ego…

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Sadness and Anger

April 9th, 2010  

Anger covers over a tender and wounded heart. Anger is a hard shell of protection that we use to keep ourselves from experiencing our deeper, vulnerable feelings. If we can stay open with the energy of anger and not suppress …

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Pema Chodron “Troublemakers”

April 3rd, 2010  

Pema Chodron talks about anger, and how being provoked by the world helps us see our own blind spots, the places where we “get hooked.”

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